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How Using Sermons as Sunday School Lesson Content Has Been a Win

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The Unexpected Benefit of Leading a Sunday School Class

This week’s sermon was the best one ever…

This inside joke was said again this week in our Sunday School class. It has been said many times and for multiple weeks in a row. Actually, there is some truth to this.

You know how when you’re watching a television series or reading a book series and the most recent one is so good that you don’t think it can ever be topped…and then the next one is better.

This is how Pastor Lee’s sermons have been. We are surprised about how they just keep getting better.

Several years ago, our Sunday School class was looking for some lesson material, and we decided that until we found something, we would discuss each week’s sermon.

This happened back in November of 2013, and we been using sermons as our lesson topic since…that’s a lot of sermons…almost 500.

As we began this process, I realized that as the leader of this Sunday School class, I was going to need to pay close attention to the sermons. Now the pressure was on…

One of the things that I did to help me focus on the sermons was to take notes. The act of taking notes was one of the most beneficial things. It made listening, a higher priority. This listening allowed me to get a lot more from the sermons.

Pastor Lee is only going to be in our pulpit a couple more weeks. We are going to miss him and his wonderful messages more than he knows. He has been here at Tisdale for eight and a half years, so our Sunday School class has discussed his sermons more than any others. How will we ever manage…

There are three elements that Pastor Lee puts in every sermon…humor, knowledge, and inspiration. He connects these three things to God, the Bible and life. These are the things that make up our faith stories. Everyone’s faith stories are different, but…

God and His message are universal, eternal, and absolute.

Now to this week’s sermon –

The humorous story – There was a young police officer who was testifying in court against a man arrested for robbery. The defendant was being represented by a hard-nosed attorney known to be tough on police officers. The attorney was trying to undermine the policeman’s credibility.

The attorney asked the policeman, “Did you see with your own eyes my client committing this crime?” The officer replied, “No, I didn’t see him do it, but my partner did.” The attorney asked, “And you trust your partner that much?” The police officer replied, “Yes, I trust him and all of my fellow officers with my life.”

Now the attorney thought he had the officer right where he wanted him.

“Officer, do you have a locker in a locker room, and do you keep your locker locked?” The policeman said, “Yes.” Then the attorney asked, “If you trust your life to these people, why do you not trust them with what’s in your locker?”

The young police officer said, “You see sir, we share this building with the court complex and sometimes lawyers walk through the building.”

The court room erupted in laughter and was adjourned.

After Jesus’ crucifixion, His followers were not sure about what they were supposed to do. In their uncertainty someone like this attorney could make them doubt what they were supposed to do going forward.

In Matthew 28:16-20, Jesus, after being raised from the dead, met with his eleven disciples and told them what to do.

Knowledge – The disciples were given authority and were told to go out into the world, to all the people and to share His message. The same thing we’ve been called to do.

Jesus doesn’t need us. He could make everyone believe if He chose to. He can do anything and everything. But this isn’t the way He chose. He wants us to share His message. We are to build the church, share the Sacraments, and share ethics and morals.

Inspiration – Bob Pierce was inspired to start World Vision by three women missionaries, but the vision started with his high school Sunday School teacher, Elizabeth Hunter (Sales).

Every week she would make stories from the Bible come alive for a group of active teens, challenging them to use their lives to make a difference in Jesus’ name.

Throughout his life, Bob credited Miss Hunter with first challenging him to ministry. His daughter never realized how deep that challenge went until she discovered a small blue book in her father’s library.

On the first page there was an inscription dated Christmas 1928: “To Bob from Miss Hunter. My prayer and deepest desire for you is Matthew 28:18-20.

“Therefore, go and make disciples of all nations. …”

Your prayers were answered, Miss Hunter.

The disciples were sad at Jesus’ leaving and felt lost.

They used what they had learned from Him and their time together and went out and spread the Word to everyone everywhere. We now need to do the same thing as the disciples.

We are sad that Pastor Lee and Kay are leaving but we need to take what we’ve learned from him and our time together and share that message with those we encounter.

Sharing the humor, knowledge, and inspiration from his sermons in our Sunday School class has been an unexpected benefit that will have a lasting impact on me, and those I have shared them with.

Thank you, Pastor Lee!

How Can I Help People Understand What I’m Saying?

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It’s Hard to Get Others to See Things from My Perspective

This sounds a little self-centered, like my perspective is more important than everyone else’s.

That’s not what I mean by “getting others to see things from my perspective”.

I’ve been hearing from marketing people for a long time about the difficulty of getting people to understand what we’re saying. This is often referred to as the “curse of knowledge”, which is when we’re sharing a message with the assumption those who are hearing it have as much knowledge and familiarity with a given topic as we do.

The fact that I’ve been hearing this for a while and am still trying to figure out how to implement it, is exactly what I’m talking about.

This issue resurfaced in a few different places over the past couple of weeks.

First and closet to home is my struggle with getting construction companies to see the value of my Blueprint for Building a Better Proposal system.

The value of this proposal system makes perfect sense to me, but then I developed it more than thirty years ago and have been using it almost daily since then. My “curse of knowledge”.

I’ve shared this proposal system idea with construction companies without much success. It’s frustrating, having been where they are and knowing that it would likely help them.

Why wouldn’t they want to start using it immediately?

The second place that this issue came up was in a discussion with my friend Shep Jordan. He’s in the process of writing a memoir of his experiences with six role models when he was growing up. He hopes to help others see the negative impacts resulting from a lack of good role models in today’s world and the need to do something about it.

It’s critically important for boys to have good role models and for men to be good role models!

The problem is…how to get others to hear what he’s saying? They may hear him and agree, but how does he get them to embrace and implement the ideas that are in his book?

The third place this got discussed was in our mastermind. One of the members is working on a new program and was asking about pricing. As we discussed it, I asked for clarification. With further discussion I realized that this is that same common problem. He was crystal clear about what he was saying…the rest of us not as much.

How can we help people understand what we’re saying?

The other thing we need to realize is that it’s going to take some time to get other people to understand what we’re trying to say.

There’s so much going on in our own minds and the world around us, that it takes a long time and a lot of repetition to break through the noise. It may take years and repeating the message hundreds of times before they even know that we’re saying anything.

Add to that the importance of aligning your message with their need and you have a big hill to climb. The thing to remember is that the hill can be climbed.

As noisy as things are right now it’s amazing that we can get anyone at all to listen to what we have to say.

The thing to remember is…if what we have to share is in alignment with God’s plan then our part is to keep on sharing it over and over knowing that if even one person is helped it was worth the effort.

Putting ourselves back in the position of our target audience and repetition is the way to get them to hear and understand what we’re saying.

And most importantly…don’t give up, keep on sharing.

Communication Has to Be Received Before It’s Complete

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Miscommunication Is a Huge Problem in the World Today

In Pastor Lee’s message Sunday, he told a story about a text message that was sent to him months ago. He didn’t see it until just recently and of course responded to it immediately. He made the point that…

Communication doesn’t happen when messages are sent, only when they’re received and acted upon.

Poor communication is one of the biggest issues we face. I know in the construction industry this is without a doubt the biggest problem between contractor and customer. Of course, it isn’t restricted to construction…just look around.

Improving on communication is important enough to me, that’s one of my ‘core values’. That’s why I work to remember that I have two ears and one mouth. I’ve previously written about the importance of good communication and the high cost to no communication.

We need to work harder to be better communicators.

Communication can be done through word or action. Isn’t it interesting that both the Bible and Jesus are both referred to as the “Word of God”? In John 1:1 we’re told that the Word was there in the beginning, it was with God and it was God.

God sent us a message, but it won’t be complete if we don’t receive and act on it.

How Important Are the Words We Use to the Clarity of Our Message?

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I Would Really Like an Answer to This Question!

I’ve written about the importance of providing clear communication with customers through construction proposals in previous posts. Here are a few of them:

            The Bulk of the Communication Responsibility Lies on the Contractor

            How to Build a Better Proposal

            An Overview of the Blueprint for Building a Better Proposal

            How to Make Sure You Don’t Overlook Something

            How to Prepare a Scope of Work for a Construction Project

            How to Price a Construction Project Proposal

            How to Put the Pieces of the Construction Proposal Together

We’re currently working on a free downloadable document to help construction contractors avoid common mistakes made when giving customers a price for doing a construction project. I’ve employed the help of some professional digital markers to help me with this. The question that I have has to do with the words used.

I have a first draft written by one of them based on some of my previous writing. At first read I loved it. Then I began to wonder if it was too much for contractors. Will they understand it? As we have continued to work through the digital marketing process it was discussed with others. In every instance there were suggested changes.

Now I’m more confused than ever.

I know that I tend to make things more difficult than they need to be so…I thought I would put a couple of side by side excerpts from the draft and some of the suggestions and let you tell me which you think is clearer and more understandable from a contractor’s perspective…or if I’m once again making this too complicated.

Excerpt 1A:

The 7 Mistakes Contractors Make That Cost Them a Fortune — and How to Avoid Them.

While a lot of construction businesses are really great at providing good services, they get hamstrung by the business side of things.

If you’re like most small to medium sized construction companies, you learned a specific craft that you like doing – and at some point, you decided to start your own business.

If you’re like me, you probably got into this because you’re good at building things…not because you felt like you needed to be an expert in business. In fact, I believe as a contractor you shouldn’t need to get a masters in business to do good work – or have a thriving business that you love.

Excerpt 1B:

The 7 Mistakes Most Contractors Make When Doing Construction Proposals — and How to Avoid Them.

While a lot of construction companies are great at “constructing”, they’re overwhelmed by the business side of things.

If you’re like most small to medium sized construction companies, you learned a construction trade that you like doing – and at some point, decided to start your own business.

If you’re like me, you probably got into this because you like building things…not necessarily to run a business. In fact, I believe as a contractor you shouldn’t need a master’s degree in business to be successful.

Excerpt 2A:

#1: Your customers lack clarity

Confusion is your number one enemy. Crystal clear communication with your customers is critical to your success. And that might sound like a no brainer, or that it’s easier said than done…but this is the biggest failing point in most construction businesses.

Excerpt 2B:

#1: Your customers lack clarity

Confusion is your number one enemy. Crystal clear communication with your customers is critical to your success. That might sound like a no brainer…but this is the point at which most construction businesses fail.

I realize that not all of you who will read this are contractors. That’s okay, I would still appreciate your input in the comments below. If you know some contractors, please forward this to them so that they can give me their perspective.

Any and all feedback will be helpful!

Thanks!

Things Have a Way of Changing Quickly

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In Times of Change it is Important to Keep Your Focus

If you had told someone a few weeks ago that there wouldn’t be any toilet paper in the stores…schools would be closed…all sporting events would be canceled…people would be staying at home…they wouldn’t have believed you. We definitely are experiencing some change.

This change has happened quickly, but that’s nothing new.

When Jesus came into Jerusalem on Psalm Sunday, He was viewed by many as a hero that was going to lead the people to a new kingdom. Then in a matter of a few days, He was dead. Things changed quickly from celebration to sorrow. Then in a few more days there was another change. He was raised from death to life.

There are positive changes coming in our future.

Some people didn’t like Jesus’ message. Some people don’t like our message. Just like Jesus, not everyone is going to understand or like our message. It can be hard to continue sharing our message when it feels like no one is listening. We need to focus on the message we’ve been given and never stop sharing it.

Jesus was a small country boy who started speaking to a small following. He kept sharing His message He never quit or gave up. He shared it with a few people who then shared it with a few people who shared with a few more. Look at how many people have heard it now. Proof that networking can work to build a community of followers.

The right message shared with the right people at the right time will have a major impact.

It’s not our job to know who the right people are or when the right time is. Our job is to focus on the message. To share, share again and share some more.

KEEP ON SHARING – NEVER QUIT!